The 3 Best Foreplay Techniques


It’s no secret that foreplay is the most neglected part, at least from a woman’s perspective. We’re always in a rush to get into her panties that we completely ignore how SHE’S feeling.

And when we DO remember about foreplay, it’s probably too late, anyway. Once you’re inside her, it’s a little too late to start doing it, right?

The hard part about foreplay is to remember to do it at the right time. Us guys get so excited when with a girl that we skip over some steps and rush things to get to the end.

Now, I can’t teach you how to be patient. This is something you’ll have to acquire for yourself. But what I can do is give you some of my best foreplay tips that you can apply the next time you’ll be in bed with a girl.


#1. Kissing and touching

I know what you’re thinking: I knew that already. Maybe you did, but did you also know how to find her erogenous zones? No matter how much you kiss and touch her shoulders, if she’s not turned on by it, she probably never will, no matter how hard you try.

So as you do your foreplay, make sure you notice her body’s reactions to your kissing and touching. Make mental notes of the places she seems to enjoy so you can keep coming back to them from time to time.

As the foreplay advances, you’ll want to “visit” those areas more and more often. Most guys think that women get turned off if you work on a single area too much, but that’s exactly why they don’t give them orgasms!


#2. Slowly remove her clothes

Sometimes they like it rough, I get it. But even so, the chances of her orgasm are higher if you take it slow. One trick I sometimes use is to slowly remove her top just a little, kiss it, then put it back. If done at the right time, this will drive her crazy!


#3. Give her a massage

You don’t need fancy massage oil and complicated techniques to make her feel really good. Start with the shoulders, then slowly move down all the way to her lower back.

A very basic massage technique teaches us to do it in passes. The first pass is for warm-up. You usually start with the lower back, moving upwards but without pressing too much with your palms. You can move pretty quickly and reach the shoulders after about 15 seconds after you pass. This 1st phase should last for about 2 minutes.

In phase two you start applying a little more pressure. Start with the lower back, particularly the left side. On this second pass, use only the back of your hands, but don’t worry if you also touch her with your fingers.

Ok, we’re ready for the 3rd pass. Start with any muscle, her left shoulder, for instance. Locate a muscle at random, then start to slowly massage it with your fingers. Then move on to the next, and so on.

One thing to keep in mind is that you should only use your fingers to massage her shoulders and the back of her head, while the back of your hands should be used only to massage her middle and lower back.


All right, that’s it! Now you have a basic set of tools to give any girl a foreplay that she’ll remember.

~ The Lifestyle God

2 thoughts on “The 3 Best Foreplay Techniques

  1. Hector Gonzalez says:

    Not much of a forplayer, but I can admit to learning
    a little from steps 1,2,&3
    Great blog Rob, always a lot a good stuff to read,
    Hope all you other guys reading this enjoy it as much
    As I do.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Share This