Are full curves on a woman really considered unattractive?

Okay. So, I’m really sick of all this…. I am a curvy woman. I have hips, thighs, a butt, and I chest.

I don’t think I’m fat or anything at all nor do I think I’m thin. I look like a woman.

To me, girls that are skinny or who have no “meat” is unattractive. But I see guys alllll the time passing up curvy women for the stick across the room. Ridiculous. Myself, being a prime example. and just because I have a little weight to me doesn’t mean I don’t care of myself. That’s bullshit. I get my hair & nails done professionally, I wear nice clothes that fit right, I shower at least once a day, I eat pretty well, I use the stairs haha.

So I don’t want to hear the “well if she looks like that, she probably doesn’t take care of herself” crap.

Is a thin girls’ body better than mine because I don’t starve myself, or spend hours and hours at the gym?

I’m just so confused, I really don’t understand. Guys, tell me what you find more attractive and why…



Trust me, there’s NOTHING wrong with you or your body, and you seem to know that already. And, I can relate to your frustration.

BUT many guys, me included, are more attracted to the thinner girls automatically. This is a completely superficial reaction.

beautiful thin woman
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Some attraction IS skin deep, and that's natural.

It’s not wrong.

It’s not a judgment on you.

BUT attraction is MORE than just superficial appearances.

If you’re smart, and you put in the effort, you can easily outshine any thin woman with your social charisma, personality, and sexy confidence.

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Kim Kardashian is round and curvy and men LOVE her!
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She's showing off some ass.

Ask yourself this… are you sulking and giving off negative body language because you’re expecting rejection? You might not know you’re doing it. OR are you giving inviting body language that makes guys want to approach you?

ATTRACTION is more than just how you look, it’s how you make a man FEEL when he’s around you.

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By flirting she appears approachable and fun.

We guys are superficial, but only at first… and only because we don’t know you yet. If we see you across the room then all we can see is the surface. I suggest you invite the guys you find cute to get to know you better… and I bet you’ll find that many thin women don’t have what it takes to keep a guy.

~ Robby


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