Hi! My name is Robert Belland, but you can call me Robby.
Body Type: Fit or Fat, depending on the year.
Ethnic Background: White?
Smoking Habits: Do not smoke.
The concerns going through my head at any one time are:
3) Cartoon Theme Songs
4) Concepts around Time-Travel and Quantum Mechanics
5) Concepts around dating, understanding women, and social dynamics (I’m totally not kidding)
THE PURPOSE OF THIS BLOG.
Perhaps I should make two things somewhat clear at this point.
Number 1 Being angry, frustrated, and tired of woman and dating is far more common than I ever expected and it helps make me feel more normal. So if you share these feelings with me then I hope you understand that you re not alone.
Number 2 Being full of hate will not only prevent you from attracting the women you meet, but it will likely also prevent you from even MEETING women. Just by having these frustrations you are unknowingly communicating to women that you are unattractive, creepy, and possibly dangerous.
So let me share a secret with you right now. I’m no longer full of hate.
Guess what else? I now have choice with women. When I was bitter and full of hate I was terrible with women. It was horrible, confusing, embarrassing, and depressing. Over time, and with much inner work, I eventually went through a phase where I was dating three or four girls at a time. Today I’ve really raised my expectations and I only date women I truly find compelling. The point is that I now have CHOICE.
The most important thing is that I’m not only happy with who I am, the path I’m on, and the few women I choose to spend time with, but I feel compelled to share with you some methods of dating success so that you can skip the ugly learning curve I forced myself through over the last few years. These attraction secrets are universal, immediately effective, and should be shared with all men!
Since I was once so angry and jaded I feel I can speak with some authority on the matter, and now that I ve developed a deep understanding of WHY women do the things they do (things MOST WOMEN DON’T EVEN KNOW) I am totally excited to share these secret and powerful dating insights with you.
I think this blog can do the following:
Help you if you re an average, creepy, needy, approval-seeking guy by giving you the core skills to turn yourself into an attractive self-assured congruent man of action, charm, masculine authority and purpose.
Offer a forum where I can share my personal insights and experiences with you. I’m hoping to include the wisdom, tools and tactics from today s top dating coaches who have a deep understanding of dating dynamics and attraction.
Help us deconstruct the damaging domestication training we men have been given with the hopes of rediscovering the inner power of self assurance, validation, and approval.
Help us deconstruct the seemingly bizarre behavior of women, with the goal of removing our frustrations with them, and replacing this confusion with a full appreciation and understanding of their motivations, genetic drives, and personal desires.
Help us unite men together to help stop the spread of the boy-masculine disease that s infecting huge male populations, causing many women to be left unsatisfied, and many men confused as to why they feel so helpless.
Help me to convince those men, who continue to accept the bad behavior they receive from women in their lives, that there is a world of options out there which are only one step away.
Promote the overall emotional growth and maturity of men. Perhaps we can create a social network of like-minded men who are on this same journey of self-discovery.
The point of this blog is to share the understanding that it s our resentments and negative assumptions of women that are directly responsible for our lack of dating success.
Basically I want to share with my fellow man.
We guys let our egos hold us back from empowering each other with our shared knowledge and dating insights because of our own insecurities and I hope I can make steps to prevent this current trend from steamrolling over our next generation of men.
When I started to learn all about H.A.T.E (Healing, Attracting, Teasing, and Escalating) I felt like I suddenly became the only sober guy at a frat party. When you learn to free yourself from the heavy burden of your ego and misguided expectations, you ll feel totally empowered and prepared to approach and attract any woman you desire, while the rest of the socially-handicapped dudes clumsily flail about, scaring women directly into your arms. Hopefully you will eventually see that it s the angry, bitter, and confused men of the world who gift-wrap their women FOR YOU.
My expectation is that this blog, and my book, will help us learn that men need not be angry or full of hate. The truth is women will always hold a level of confusion and mystery and, with time, we need to learn to love and appreciate that.
As MEN we should take responsibility for our bad choices and our bad emotional responses thereby re-igniting our future dating successes!